Mary Joan "Joannie" Williams

Mary Joan “Joannie” Williams transitioned from earth to heaven on Sunday, August 2, 2026. She was born on December 7, 1935, in St. Louis, Missouri, to Felix Carl and Caroline (Patillo) Wethington. Mary Joan was preceded in death by her parents; her brothers, Robert Wethington and Patrick Wethington; her husband, Donald K. Williams, Sr.; her son, Timothy Williams; her grandson, Wesley Thomas Helland; her granddaughter, Amy Rae Smith; and her great-grandson, Ashton Skylar DeWinters. Joannie is survived by her devoted longtime companion, Sandy Birenbaum; her children, “Chip” Donald K. Williams, Jr., “Patty” Patricia (Jeff) Kraft, “Danny” Daniel Williams, “Sugar” Jeannette Smith, “Angel” Kathleen (Tom) Helland, “Terry” Theresa (John) Hall, “Candie” Denise Williams, and bonus daughter Tracey Rohlfing; and over 40 grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Joannie was a remarkable person—uncensored, generous beyond her means, and full of love for everyone she met. She never knew a stranger. A devoted family matriarch, she was the glue that held her extended family together, especially in later years after the previous generation had passed. In addition to raising and loving her immediate family, she cared for aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, and anyone else in need. One of her continuous desires to help others was to donate her body to science. Throughout her life, Joannie embraced many roles: a teenage postulant studying to become an Ursuline nun, a young bride, a loving wife, the mother of nine children (including a bonus daughter), a grieving mother after the loss of her son, a widow, and ultimately a devoted companion. In tributes to their mother, her daughters wrote: “…you knew she was a little crazy—in the very best way. She raised us with love, lots of laughter, and unforgettable stories. Her kindness, her strength, and her unique spirit touched many lives; the world feels a little quieter without her in it.” They also shared, “If you knew her, you KNEW her. The lady with no filter, a huge heart, and love and kindness for everyone. She loved a garage sale and would find you everything you never needed.” Beyond raising her family, Joannie worked in food service for many years. She loved sharing food, especially her famous “Wethington Special Hot Dogs”, and her home was always open to others. A gathering or celebration could spring up at a moment’s notice. Though known for her spirited remarks and occasional risqué joke, she welcomed and accepted everyone without judgment. She fed the hungry, welcomed the stranger, and made everyone feel at home. Joannie also loved her many pets over the years, especially a mixed-breed dog named Rags. She leaves behind her beloved beagle, Freckles. Joannie enjoyed dining out, camping, boating, travel, amusement parks, parades, attending performances at The Muny and other musical events, volunteering in support of BandTogether in St. Louis, and participating in good old-fashioned sing-alongs with friends. Sandy and Joannie’s family would like to thank those who cared for her so well during the last several weeks including DeGreeff Hospice House (a Mercy facility), Mercy Hospital staff, Mercy Spiritual Care Father Joseph, and St. Luke’s Rehab Hospital. The care, comfort, and support all provided were appreciated by Joannie and are continuing to be blessings to her family. The Williams’ family would also like to express its deepest gratitude to Sandy, Mom’s longtime devoted friend. Sandy’s friendship became so much more than anyone could have asked or expected. She was a constant companion, taking Mom wherever she wanted or needed to go, sharing countless experiences and memories, and bringing friendship, laughter, comfort, and joy into her life. Sandy cared for Mom with extraordinary kindness and devotion, always giving her time and companionship simply because she loved and cared about her. She remained by Mom’s side through her final days, ensuring that she was cared for, comforted, and never alone. We will forever be grateful for the beautiful friendship and unconditional love Sandy gave Mom. Her presence in Mom’s life was a true gift, and our family will always cherish the love, care, and countless memories they shared. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are encouraged to be made to a charity of your choice, the DeGreeff Hospice House, American Heart Association, BandTogether, or the Animal Protective Association of Missouri. A Funeral Mass for Joannie will be held on Saturday, September 26, 2026, at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Spirit Catholic Church, 3130 Parkwood Lane, Maryland Heights, Missouri 63043. A reception/celebration will follow at Holy Spirit. Services by Hughes Funeral Alternatives in St. Louis, Missouri. Friends and family can sign an online guestbook at https://www.HughesFA.com

Mary Joan "Joannie" Williams

December 7, 1935 - August 2, 2026